書評・レビュー・「７つの習慣」ー 習慣6 - Synergize

おはようございます。

昨日疲れて１０時に寝ましたジェフです！

早速ですが、今日は習慣６-「Syngergize」を復習しましょう！

Habit 6 - Synergize

Habit 4 (Think Win/Win) is about taking leadership to influence people.
Habit 5 (Seek first to understand then to be understood) then introduces effective communication skill to achieve Win/Win.

Habit 6 is to put Habit 4 and 5 into actions.

Synergizing is to create something that the outcome is great than its parts' sum. (1+1>2, unlimited possibilities)

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Questions!
Have you tried to create synergy in the relationship with your family or your friends?
How do you deal with conflicts with family or friends?
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Dr. Covey suggests many techniques to achieve synergy. 

My favorite one is “valuing the difference.”

All of us were born differently with different talents. If we evaluate others’ abilities based on our own talents, it is very likely we will miss out the great talents other have.

I love the story of the animal school Dr. Covey told in this chapter. Let me quote a part of it for you:

“The rabbit started at the top of the class in running, but had a nervous breakdown because of so much makeup in swimming."

This simple story hit me right on the spot.

Am I a rabbit or am I a duck in this society?
Am I focusing or made to focus on my real talents?

I invite you to think about these questions.

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I hope you have a great day.

＊この文章は「ジェフの英語RFA読書会」の過去のフォロアップメッセージです。そのまま、記載させていただきます。

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